Gaslighting may seem like a newer term, but it originated in a 1944 movie where a man deliberately convinced his wife that she was insane so that he could steal her family’s treasure. Here are the different ways people gaslight others and five steps to help you take back control if it is happening to you.
Read moreDecision-Making: Why Smart Leaders Do Dumb Things [VIDEO]
There are a lot of examples of people who are perhaps smart, but not smart all the time. Here are five reasons smart leaders sometimes do dumb things.
Read moreYour Leadership Superpower: What Sets Great Leaders Apart
Leaders can have superpowers - like influential networking, extraordinary intelligence, or visionary insights. If you could pick one leadership superpower that would help you lead the most effectively, what would it be? Here's one of the top ones and what you can do to cultivate it.
Read moreHow to Be a Highly Desirable Place to Work
How can you make your organization a highly desirable place to work? It's simple: help your people build friendships at work. Here are nine ways to produce a highly desirable organization by fueling friendships at work.
Read moreResilience: 7 Ways “Average” People Can Grow Above-Average Endurance
There is no magic formula for becoming a resilient person, but there are specific ways we can strengthen our ability to rebound from disappointment. Here are 7 ways we “average” people can grow above-average endurance.
Read moreResilience: It May Not Be What You Think
Resilience, the spirit that leads someone to endure hardship and refuse to give up, surprisingly does have consequences. Here are five common, but unexpected, feelings that often tag along with the resilient leader.
Read more5 Helpful Ways to Reframe Stress
“Americans are among the most stressed people in the world.” That was the title of an article in the New York Times in April 2019. And that was before the pandemic and its political conflicts and mask wars existed! So yes, it is fair to say we are stressed. Here are five helpful ways to reframe stress and move towards solutions.
Read more9 Things Successful People Think About Themselves
Success is not just about what we do, it starts with how we think. Here are 9 things successful people think about themselves, and you should too.
Read moreEQ: 4 Qualities of Emotionally Intelligent Leaders [VIDEO]
What if you could increase your organization's productivity by one third or your salary by $29,000 per year by focusing on one thing? Turns out you can through emotional intelligence (EQ). Here are four qualities of leaders with high EQ.
Read moreEnergy Thieves! Protecting Yourself from Those Who Steal Your Energy & Joy
Working with or for someone who is stealing your emotional energy is draining. Here are six suggestions to protect yourself from them.
Read moreEnergy Thieves! 8 Warning Signs That People Are Stealing Your Emotional Energy
Growing up in my town, we were often on the lookout for thieves who would take your bike, grill, tires, or just about anything. But we need to be aware of a different type of thief in our lives and organizations, the energy thief. Here are eight signs that you may have someone tapping into your emotional energy and zapping your joy - without your permission.
Read moreWant to Influence Others? Touch the Heart. Here’s How.
Jack Hanna, the “animal guy,” has been known for the phrase: “You have to touch the heart to teach the mind.” And this is also true for leadership. If you want to influence those around you, you have to make deep personal connections. Here are 7 ways to do so.
Read more5 Reasons I Don’t Listen & What to Do About It
“I promise to listen to you if you promise to stop talking!” These words are probably truer than we would like to admit. Listening is HARD. Here are five of the reasons listening is so difficult and what we can do to get better at it.
Read more5 Unseen Things Often at Work in People’s Lives
Just like the wizard behind the curtain in the Oz movie, what people publicly portray can often be betrayed by what truly exists in their private lives. Keeping secrets can result in a crash when people see the chasm between the two images of us. Here are some of the common things others seldom see but are often at work in our lives and what we can do about them.
Read more3 Facts of Life That We All Have in Common
We often look at others and think, “They have it better than I do.” We are all going through different experiences, but there are three facts of life that are common to all of us. Here is a summary of what God says about these three realities.
Read moreNot Everything That Spreads Is Bad – 6 Things That Spread Positivity
Corona, Ebola, Swine, Avian. Viruses spread and leave emotional, physical, and economic fallout. But not everything that spreads is bad. Here are 6 good things that can be spread and have a positive effect.
Read moreHow Well Do You Manage Your Mind? [INFOGRAPHIC]
As leaders, our job descriptions often call upon us to manage projects, people and budgets. Seldom will you see a job description that includes managing your mind. Yet, it is our mind that will determine how we manage those projects, people and budgets. Here are 7 opposing characteristics of thought. Where do you tend to fall?
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